Reason
1. they are the lucky ones.. compare dengan general population for bigger picture
2. marriage is not going to make you happier if you are depressed /have problems
because depressed people ada sebab buat diorang depressed -mcm MASALAH KEWANGAN, KELUARGA DAN SOCIAL, poor social skill malas berkawan, paranoid, malas nak enjoy dsb -> which reduce fun of marriage -> family turmoil -> lagi depressed
org yg hapy biasanya duit cukup, financially okay dan takde masalah dan anturally drawn to fun things -> morre happy
3. make your self happy beforre you make others (wife) happy
postive energy bring postive results
4. MARRIAGE IS NOT GOING TO MAKE YOU HAPPY, BUT GOOD RELATIONSHIP IS
5. Find someone who can understand what talkshare, share common goals, love you, and you comfortale with
6. marriage is long time commitment, make sure you are ready spirutally, skills, leadership, independent, commitment and financilly.. its going to be unpredicatable thus constant monitoring is a must
7. like job,
good family hygiene = you will not hate your marriage
to get good family hygiene, your marriage must able to fulfill the basic needs (house, foods, clothe) = adequate money
without this, you wont think about having fun
once you get good familt hygiene, then head to love your marriage, you need to work on spending time together/good personlity/same hobby/adequate time
so before you marry : prepare the basic needs and choose someone you love AND you think you can maintain relationship for long time (same way of thinking, personality you like, same hobby etc)
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